Ida Benedetto

Thoughts & Ideas

I love both research and writing. My public speaking has also been warmly received. View a collection of talks and essays on everything from experience design to astrology, self-published and in formal venues.

Essays

  • See You in Court — two observations about how conflict works between people, drawn from volunteering as a small claims court mediator. May 2026
  • More essays on Uncommon Places — including “Your Move 78 and My Colorblind Glasses,” on AI and neurodiversity, which got a fair bit of traction; “The Two Failure Modes of High-Stakes Gatherings”; and “Host Better Hackathons.”

Talks

Research

  • Patterns of Transformation — research into the design of transformative social experiences, drawn from well-done sex parties, funerals, and wilderness trips. Widely read within and beyond the experience design community.